IsurvivetraumaA NOTE TO SURVIVORS. Day 16.I get fascinated by a lot of things. There's mental health and how people can live with mental health conditions, the unsuspecting persons…3 min read·Dec 12, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaTHE IMPACT OF SEXUAL VIOLENCE ON PHYSICAL HEALTH. Day 15."I walked aimlessly last night trying to figure out what I was feeling and I couldn’t. My gut was in severe discomfort, unable to decide if…4 min read·Dec 11, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaINTERNATIONAL HUMAN RIGHTS DAY — Supporting Women’s Rights. Day 14. (16/16).“All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one…2 min read·Dec 10, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaTHINGS YOU’RE NOT ALLOWED TO SAY TO A SURVIVOR. Day 13. (15/16).We're going to be wrapping up the #16daysofactivism soon and I thought to share a few things survivors shouldn't have to hear from others…7 min read·Dec 9, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaUnderstanding Children Can’t Consent. Day 12. (14/16).We sexualize children a lot and steal pieces of their childhood away.4 min read·Dec 8, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaSexual Consent. Day 11. (12/16).Sexual consent means agreeing to a sexual activity voluntarily. In this instance, both parties are aware of what they want and make an…3 min read·Dec 6, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaOn a Reflective Need to Prevent Violence. Day 10. (11/16).The death of Sylvester Oromoni is not a secret anymore in Nigeria. He was a 12-year-old student of Dowen College in Lagos state who died as…4 min read·Dec 5, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaUNDERSTANDING CONSENT. Day 9. (10/16)."So many of us didn't know we could give and withdraw consent. We weren't taught Our abusers knew of this power and kept it a secret from…3 min read·Dec 4, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaTRAUMA RESPONSES: ON F.I.G.H.T. Day 8. (9/16).Last year on the 13th of June, 2020, my abuser came to the house to visit. It was a norm for him to walk in whenever he wanted without fear…5 min read·Dec 3, 2021----
IsurvivetraumaTRAUMA RESPONSES: ON F.L.I.G.H.T. Day 7. Pt. 2 (8/16).I'm usually between fawning and freezing. When I started this blog, part of me wanted to use writing to remember what happened to me as a…5 min read·Dec 2, 2021----